Simple word Swap
Let's face it: saying "no" is hard. Even when your schedule absolutely won't allow it, turning someone down for help on a project, attendance at their party, or a night on the town feels awful. As a result, many people end up saying "yes" anyway, overloading themselves and making everything mediocre as a result. There's an easy way to avoid being persuaded to bite off more than you can chew, however. Instead of saying you "can't" do what's asked of you, say you "don't" do things like that. Just Say NO For example, imagine a friend texts you on Saturday night to say that another friend bailed on tomorrow's trip to rent a boat and go sailing all day. "You should come with us!" he says. It's $100 per person. Your mind races: you have laundry to do, errands to run, work to finish, and on top of all of that, you're short on cash. But you know this friend. He's persistent. If you say no, he'll as...